2011: How did I do?
There were really only three things on my list last year, and I’m surprised to say I achieved all of them. The best known was to get my book finished. While it’s not finished, it’s on contract, which was much farther [...]
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Launching 2012
December 31, 2011
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Resolutions as currently established sound like a failure formula. The system seems good – to “improve’ yourself – but when you look closely, it’s really another system of self-punishment that often winds up preventing the very behaviors that you want [...]
2011: the lights and shadows
December 25, 2011
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I always start with the negative and move to the positive, although I did learn through recent reading that people are inclined to remember the negative even when the positive is the more important message. So this year, let’s start [...]
Allow me to debunk a few minor assumptions (about myself)
November 23, 2011
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Just because I keep encountering these particular behaviors/assumptions, I wanted to address them here and now, so it’s in print and spelled out well: 1. If you are Pagan and you change religions, I am not mad at you. If you are Christian, I only hate you when you act like a jerk, which is the [...]
Why having expectations is a failure
November 16, 2011
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Actually, it’s having expectations that you do not verbalize that’s the failure. I consider attaining gender equality a necessity, and I believe that a big part of that is getting women to rally their courage and change, break, and destroy female to female communication as we know it. Why? Because there are aspects of female bonding, sharing, [...]
January 3, 2012
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